Yesterday began with a sense of anticipation, excitement and worry about weather. It was finally the day that the surprise BBQ for Chris and Tonya was to be held. Two months of planning, countless text messages amongst dozens of family and friends, and hours of preparation would all come together. MY Jane, her Mom, Ted, and I set out for Toronto.
The weather, the one thing none of has control over, did not co-operate, but everything else worked out extremely well; instead of a back yard function, it was simply moved indoors.
One of Tonya’s best friends, Amanda, was the main organizer and it was at her house that the party was being held.
Chris and Tonya had been invited by Amanda to a “get together” with a “few” of Tonya’s girlfriends. Wouldn’t you know it – at the last minute Chris decided that he didn’t want to come. In fact, he got himself all set up at his place to play Battlefield on his PS4 and order himself a Pizza while Tonya was gone.
By now there was a huge gang of friends and relatives already at Amanda’s place waiting for the unsuspecting couple to arrive. How so many people close to the two of them managed to keep it a surprise was amazing. Well done, everyone!
It was pretty tense with Chris refusing to come. What to do? It was one of Tonya’s cousins, Chris Matheson, who phoned Chris (known as CB in Tonya’s family to avoid confusion) and told him he had to come because it was actually a surprise BBQ for Tonya, and he just HAD to come. With that, Chris said he would come as soon as possible. Tonya had already been picked up by Maria, another of Tonya’s best friends, and was heading over.
Tonya arrived first and was completely overwhelmed when she walked in and everyone yelled, “SURPRISE!”. Once she regained her composure, she came back in and it was smiles, hugs and kisses all around.
Shortly after, Chris arrived and he was as taken aback as Tonya, but the grin on his face said it all. He was extremely happy to be here.
The rain had stopped and people were mingling downstairs and even in the back yard. Our worry about a shortage of food was a needless one. There was tons of delicious food. Chicken wings, lasagna, devilled eggs, meat balls, salads too numerous to mention, hamburgers. There was everything!
Amanda’s Dad, John, manned the BBQ the whole time.
And the desserts! Pies, cookies, donuts, carrot cake (Chris’ favourite) and cupcakes with their initials in little hearts on top. There were smarties with a little photo of Chris and Tonya’s engagement picture on each one.
A raffle was held for 3 prizes – a woman’s gifts basket, a man’s gift basket, and a bottle of Canadian Club. A lot of fun and about $300 was raised for Chris and Tonya.
We got to meet many of Tonya’s friends and family and I got to meet many of Chris’ best friends for the first time. Everyone was so hospitable and friendly. An absolutely fantastic day.
Kudos to Amanda, Maria, Kirsten, Leigh, and Michlin for a job very well done!
A lot of thought, a lot of work, and a whole lot of love went into this whole thing.